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Summer 2015

Monday, November 25, 2013

November 22, 2013-Africa--Massai Market, misc. photos by Lucas, and Meeting Robert and George


This is our friend Amy at the house we stayed at for the 1st 2 nights.  She is sooooooo quiet and sooo beautiful.  Lucas enjoyed just sitting and doing a puzzle with her before we left to head to Meru.

 On our way we stopped at the Massai Market.  It is a local traveling market of craftsman and women.  I have more video of this, and the people don't really like having pictures taken unless you buy from their particular "store" so pics are limited, but it was so colorful and the people were just beautiful.  The thing you hear from everyone is "Welcome"..."How are you?"  in their beautiful accents.
 Isaac found the guy selling "old" antique type African arts from all over Africa including Kenya and Ethiopia and other countries.  These things were a little more expensive so he was limited in what he could bring home.  Otherwise I think he would have taken one of everything.

 This is Lucas photography from the car on the way out of town...
 oh yes, we all hate traffic and Nairobi is PACKED with it.  He can't even read this sign, but we thought it was quite poignant.
 This is a Hindu Temple.  He got such a great shot of it.

 The trip from Nairobi to Meru is about a 4 hour drive.  Usually.  But, on Friday...not so much.  Traffice was horrific.  I think it took a total of about 6 hours or more.  We got stopped a few times by armed police men with rifles.  That is always a little freaky.  Can't take pictures of them of coursse.  I'm still not 100% clear on why they do it just randomly in the street.
In the car we had Freddy our driver, Paul, Linda, me, Isaac, Lucas and John.  I'm going to write an entire post about John eventually.  But, suffice it to say he is a grown up (age 30) still living at the orphanage run by the woman who took him off the streets in 1991 at age 9.  He had never really been away from Nairobi.  So traveling 4 hours to Meru with us was mind blowing.  Eating at restaurants was confusing.  He didn't really know what to do with the menu.  Didn't understand he could order whatever he wanted.  This doesn't mean he is illiterate or not smart.  Just a foreign experience for him.  Sweet sweet man.  Yet, has had so many many hard experiences in life including having been attacked and almost killed 3 years ago.
I say all that, because as we were about 1 1/2 hours from our destination, Lucas needed a potty stop.  So we pulled into Nuyugi (sp?) and went near a large "walmart" type store called Nakamart.  We parked.  And Lucas immediately saw these two boys standing on the other side of the fence.  John jumped out and without hesitation began speaking to them in their native tongue.  Lucas and John were unbelievable.  I am not sure if you can "get it" from these pictures.  John is in the hat and yellow shirt.  He couldn't get to them fast enough.  Can you see the sadness and desperation in the boys?

 We took everything we had for snacks in the car and gave it to them. Bars, beef sticks, munchies.  And a few Shillings.
 Lucas showed them how to open the packages.
 "like this".  Notice he is doing everything he can to reach through the fence to get to the boys.
 Isaac greeted them as well with smiles and handshakes.
 So here you have...
Robert...in black
George...in red
both street boys.  On the street 1 year and 4-6 years. (that detail has been a little unclear)
Mom left one at age of 6
And the other left because home was so ugly difficult and abusive.
It was chilly this night and Robert was in his only clothes..shorts and sandals with a tattered sweater.
Lucas (adopted but knows what it's like to live without parents). Trying as best as he can to show them compassion and ready to give him everything we have in the car.
John, a former street boy, grown and still trying to "make" it and with a tender heart so huge that I cannot put it into words.
All four "Orphans" at a certain level of their soul -- yes Lucas is no longer an orphan, but his heart "knows" unlike ours how these boys may feel.
 Lucas kept talking and talking and now calls them "friend".
We left them.  But, I could not stop sobbing at this scene.  It was over the top for me.  And actually for Paul, my brother in law too.  We were a complete mess.
We consider this moment a divine appointment.  Unplanned by us, but BIGGER than us.
We made a plan to meet them again on Saturday in the afternoon.
Story To Be Continued...


Desperation
and
Hope




Sunday, November 24, 2013

Africa- Nov. 21, 2013- Mathare (slums of Nairobi)



I'm just saying, there is something awesome about staying with a family when traveling.  These people are so kind and welcoming.  Much more soft spoken than we are tho, so I'm hoping our loud chaos hasn't disrupted their life too much...=)  They are friends of Linda and Paul and also on the board for Ripples International where we will be spening most of our time.
Some things that are different?
the shower--ask Isaac, apparently I'm not the swiftest with understanding the workings of this thing.  But, eventually I got it.

Our driver, Martin, picked us up and patiently took us around.
When traveling one needs to always go with the flow right?
Well, as we headed in to town into the "slums" (different definition than the American one) Isaac discovered he did not bring the battery to his camera.  Of all things to not have along.  THIS IS BIG!!
One of the main reasons he came was to take photos for a multitude of reasons.  It's his passion.  This is a problem.  So we stopped at a camera store...long story short, we think we've found a solution and can buy a new battery tomorrow.  But, he had no camera today (Thursday).  That was a little hard for him.

As we approched Mathare-- part of Nairobi, we immediately noticed the poverty and harsh conditions.  And immediately saw our first street boys.  We happened to have suckers and some snacks for ourselves that we started tossing out the window (stuck in traffic).  This is one of those moments when you "hear" about something sad and hard but seeing it face to face was heartbreaking.  One of the boys was carrying a plastic bottle in his teeth with something yellow at the bottom and walking around with it.  Linda and Paul told us he was sniffing glue just walking the street.  Somehow tossing suckers out to them seems so simplistic.  But, it was almost as if we didn't know what else to do in that moment.

Here is Lucas handing them some suckers.
 

Eventually we arrived at the orphanage.  Just driving up to it was shocking.  Dirt roads, and ditches filled with sewage and garbage.  We were limited with picture taking because we needed to have the windows open and there was risk someone would reach in and grab our camera.  
Once we got to the orphanage we saw some of the harshest conditions I've ever seen, yet, the kids were so excited to see us.  I wish I would have been ready to take a picture of the kids sitting on the dirt floor eating their bowls of rice and beans.  But, it hit me so hard that I was "speechless"--and almost could not move.  I almost began to sob unconrollably.  I really had to choke back the tears. 

We learned the orphanage was started with one lady named Mama Mercy finding a boy on the street named John in 1991 at the age of 9.  She brought him in because her son used to play with him and asked his mom if they could start taking care of him.  So for a year he slept in a chicken coop because she had no other room.  By 1993 she started building 3 rooms and the rest is history as the orphanage grew.  It now holds 240 kids.  But, she is really only has a handful of people helping her.
More on John a little later.
Of course Lucas made his connections right away...as can be seen here.  
Mama Mercy is on the right with the huge grin looking at Lucas.  They were playing together.
I think the kids thought Lucas was insane.  They were all just staring at him.  

 just pictures of the kids and orphanage.



This is one of the youngest ones there.  His name is Daniel.
 older kids take care of the younger ones.

 "upstairs"

 These walls are the "new" section they have not moved into yet.
 this is the youngest one there, his name is Joshua.  This 13 year old girl is responsible for caring for him.
 wash day...
 Paul and our friend John

Kamau--little boy
 Linda

 After suckers were distributed.  Everyone loved them...sweet smiles.
 didn't intend for the baby to eat one, but hey.

 oh yes and I did bring along a few dozen squirt guns too.  =) oh ya.  Boys and their guns.
 A suitcase full of flip flops.  Not enough for everyone, but I didn't know the numbers when I bought them.



This is the "farm" area across the street from them.  They have cows they use for milk and sell some of the leftovers.







 On the way out these are just a few pics from Mathare




We walked into this place with our expectations for how children "should" be treated and what their living conditions "should" be like.  Well, those were all blown to pieces.  Yet, the reality is...it is what it is for them.  They know no different as we have learned from our friend John. 
Mama Mercy was certain to tell us her priority is education.  So over time she has gathered enough donors to be certain that every child gets an education.  That means each one gets approximately $250-$500 per year paid to make sure they get that.  This includes all materials and uniforms which are required.  Education is EVERYthing to her.  I believe they feel it is their "ticket" out and for a successful life.  And the kids know it too.  They value it.  I just shake my head at how our kids often take that stuff so for granted.  

Before we left we circled up and prayed with the staff.  Such an amazing moment of prayer and they were so grateful to have us there.  They feel as if they are often "forgotten".  This is not an area that gets visted by westerners at all.  
We were just flat out humbled.  No other words really.

I leave here thinking...

All God's Children


Thursday, November 21, 2013

Africa Nov. 19-20- Travel

and we're off...


Total travel time 18 hours plus car time on both ends.
Total layovers - 1 (1 1/2 hours in Amsterdam)
Total movies watched by Lucas- 5
Total hours slept en route
   Isaac -0 on first flight- but got an entire row to himself on 2nd 8 hour flight and slept about 7 hours
   Heidi- 0 on first flight- about 4 on second flight.
   Lucas- ZERO on first flight- about 5 on second

 Lucas was enthralled by all things "airport operations" while we waited in Atlanta for our flight.

 and my handsome Isaac man was just being a great young man.



 With zero sleep from Atlanta to Amsterdam, Lucas's exhaustion caught up with him as we waited for our next flight. (note the cool necklace he wove by hand on that first leg of the trip.)

 Tigger loves to travel too

 pictures don't do it much justice out a plane window, but they wouldn't roll down the window for me at 37,000 feet, so this is all I got...   The Sahara Desert.... (and I only got this because Lucas looked out the window and said, "mom look at all that sand"


 oh, yes and then he noticed the sun setting too over the Sahara.


When we arrived we all almost had a meltdown as we waited for our Visa's.  Long line.  But, finally got through all of that and found my sister and bro in law.  Got into the van and the "driving in Nairobi" adventure began.  Our driver, Martin, is so amazing.  More on him as days go on.  One thing we noticed...stop signs and stop lights apparently are optional.
 oh yes.  red light.  optional.
If there is a crowd of cars at a light and no police officer to see it...everyone goes.  But, good to know, if you are at a red light alone, you better stay stopped.  Cuz then apparently the numbers game doesn't work and you could get a ticket.
Oh and then there's the maps and "directions".  Not so clear.  I'm so glad Paul and his driver were in charge of getting us from the airport to the apartment we were staying in.
We are staying with a pastor and his wife.  SWEET people.  They have a young daughter too who is also very gentle and quiet and sweet.  A nice calming force for Lucas. =)

When we first arrived they served us a traditional fish stew and rice even though it was 11:00 at night.
We had a bit of a hard time winding down, but eventually fell asleep.  Then, after I finally fell asleep...in that nice sound sleep...suddenly Lucas started shaking my shoulders and said,
"I did it mom, I did it...mom"
half asleep I somehow responded "what, what did you do?"
"I fell asleep"
seriously???
you woke me up to tell me you fell asleep.
GO BACK TO SLEEP!
=)
stay tuned for day 2...